Phillip Seymour Hoffman died in his apartment today, found with a
needle sticking out of him. A man with immense talent and--I
thought--good brains to boot, he must have been haunted by demons and
secret desires and ended up dying, utterly alone, in the end. His death made me
think of the warnings of an old book written by another smart man.
In
1985, Neil Postman wrote "Amusing Ourselves to Death," an account that
predicted television and its content would lead to society's demise. I
think "Facebook" or "Twitter" or "smartphones" could exchange places
with "television" and Postman's ideas would still hold true.
It
is ironic that in this, the most connected of all ages, so often, we
are alone. Alone with our devices which become vices which become
crisis.
The other day, when I looked across the East
library, I saw dozens of people, some sitting shoulder to shoulder.
Yet, virtually every one of them was alone, disconnected from the people
sitting next to them, as they maniacally managed their digital selves.
I
am not suggesting that these kids will move from smartphones to heroin;
rather, I am trying to make sense of a society filled with so many
disconnected, isolated people who so willingly give up the flesh for the
promise of a few moments of fabricated amusement.
Certainly,
I'm no better. Here I sit, after all, on a sparkly, windless Sunday
afternoon, staring into the screen of my laptop, lamenting this
addiction to all things electronic. Even my dog, Finn, knows not to
pester me when my fingers dance across the keyboard. Not that he
doesn't try, repositioning himself under my legs, his ears perked up as
he scans the backyard antics of the neighborhood squirrels.
Yet,
I cannot be bothered with all of that. Eventually, he slunks back to
his dog bed, a long sigh of resignation as he mumbles something biting
under his acrid breath.
It would do me good to wrap
this thing up and throw on a coat right now. To pull myself away from
these thoughts, the nagging image of Phillip Seymour Hoffman, slumped
against a chair, lifeless and alone-- and me, sitting by myself, staring
into the screen of my computer.
So VERY true Jane! What hurts me the most is seeing young women attached to their phones while their small children dance, sing and plead for their mother's attention.....and realizing that this is probably not just a moment in time, but a life pattern for the poor babe. What social skills are they learning? Of course I work in an elementary school; different perspective.
ReplyDeleteBuffy--I've seen the same sad thing, too. You have to wonder what price we will pay down the line for this dependence upon devices.
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